Capes And Crowns

There’s one kind of romantic relationship that I wouldn’t wish on anyone — and that’s the kind that’s been made intense by a trauma bond. This is another name for dynamic also known as “intermittent reinforcement,” where one person gives intense affection and approval to the other, and then alternates it with neglect, disapproval, abandonment or even abuse. You would think this kind of emotional on/off torture — blowing hot and then cold to the point of cruelty — would drive